Thursday, August 27, 2009

People. And What they mean.

It's funny that a random thing such as a part of a movie can trigger such a ridiculous response. anyhow.

People come and go in your life. a lot of people we would rather that they not go, but we have to accept that they have to go. Theres a lot of people even from high school that i wish i was still in contact with. but I learned to let them go. 

But let me reassure you this. 

You could be as prepared as possible, and as accepting as possible, and as sure as possible that you're done with that concept, and that if it happens again youll be fine....

but you'll never be okay with the situation when its happening. All you can do is enjoy the time you have with people while either 

a) theyre on this earth
or b) theyre in your life. 

all you can do is enjoy that time. dont try to hold on too hard. itll push them away faster. 

mark my words on this people. i know where i'm coming from. 
if someones on their way out, let them go. 

Trying to hold on only makes it burn more. 

I love all my friends so much more than they know. and when its our time to part.........

who knows what ill do. 

Saturday, August 15, 2009

Motives.

Wow. what goes on in people's heads. why do they do what they do. why do they let what happens to them happen. We as people have so much more control than we let ourselves believe, yet we still make dumb decisions and bad shit happens to us. 

Let's say like, people get involved with people that they are unsure about. WHY. why even bother. what is it that goes into your head that says to you, 'okay. this guy isnt an asshole. i dont care what people say.' when you know. dude's an ass. and youre going to be treated worse than the next loogie he spits on the ground. and you let. it. happen. 

thats the thing. people do too much of that. letting it happen. 

people in bad relationships are always overly optimistic that things will get better, and wait for that BIG moment to happen so they can break it off. 

what are you waiting for? why cant you just be like. 'not working out. k. peace.'

what are you girls' motives. what is it. what do you look for in a guy that seems to always be masked by the fact that that dude is a total dickhead. what drives you to continue looking for guys that feel like treating you like shit is the best way to go about the relationship? 

and why do you stay there.