its not.
its such a deep thing, its not something you can go looking for, i've realized. it finds you.
so even as i write this i realize things. Don't look for love. the love is gonna find you. it isnt something you can be like. hmm, i wish i was in love, im gonna go try and see if i can find a boyfriend/girlfriend. it can't be, well,
we kinda
sorta
maybe
a little
like each other, maybe it will grow and we'll love each other. that doesnt work as good. because heres a big problem.
When you try to woo someone, and you try to get someone to like you, its a big giant deception, because you will more or less try to be fake for the most part to make them like you more.
this lie and fake person is going to be what that person falls in love with, and its a one sided relationship.
The one thing to do is just be yourself at all times, and if someone doesnt like something about how you decide to live your life, thats not who you should be sharing love with.
point being. let love happen, be yourself, and just be happy, because NO ONE loves stress.
p.s.
there will be more to this. im not focused right now.
